POST 83: CERTIFIED ASSHOLES

NO PLACE FOR CERTIFIED ASSHOLES I am ruthlessly going to apply relevant components of two books written by Robert Sutton to try to come up with a checklist that might be helpful to those who struggle with the question shall I stay, or shall I go? In the first place the question is relevant to […]

POST 82: STAYING, LEAVING…

Surviving: Staying or leaving & the many losses after betrayal Again, and again I come to the same conclusion: To understand we must read all and listen and really get it and not assuming anything about affairs and the aftermath. In too many cases, there is judgment and it is neither justified nor is it […]

POST 81: NO BITCHES AND HOES

One of my thoughts associated to the entire Weinstein saga, and related to my previous posting, is how consumers can use their influence in being part of the solution.  I perceive sexual harassment as part of a wider problem of toxicity in the world, and therefore also in the workplace. Companies that have employees engaging […]

POST 80: LET’S BE HONEST…

Since the news broke about the predatory behaviour of one of Hollywood’s most famous, the topic comes up in nearly every conversation I have, even when I desperately hope that this time it will not be mentioned. The overall sentiment is that people are pleased with the attention the story is getting because most want […]

POST 79: THE MARRIAGE

The Marriage   22 years of marriage, she said Two children a girl and a boy Sacrifice out of love for them For him no time to enjoy   Years of selfishness from him And so called innocent flirtation What was our marriage worth, she asks Destroyed by demons of temptation   Pretending to be […]

POST 78: CLOSURE

Closure   Obsessed with truth Trying to understand Nothing makes sense Ending in no-where land     Hunting a ghost Manipulating liar Deception and greed Misattributed desire     Accepting the facts The hurt will ease Starting again Finding peace     Throwing it out No longer there Finding self The final of the affair […]

POST 77: POWER

Power   Unconditional love I gave you In turn you betrayed For a cheap screw   Desperate I was Offering and pleasing Giving body and soul Sacrificing appeasing   Trusting and loving Beautifully educated Held hostage by you Frustrated castrated   Taking back my power No longer dependent Freed myself Feeling transcended     By: […]