POST 75: TORN

Torn   Hiding in public Isolation Crazy sleepless nights Damnation   Lowering self Losing sanity Memory with holes Anger leading to profanity   Crippling pain Broken and hurt Ongoing torture Triggered by dirt   Searching truth Terrors and dreams Meeting silence Sharing common themes   Wanting to be held By the one who betrayed Wishing […]

POST 74: ADULTERY NO REMORSE

Adultery, no remorse and their consequences Adultery falls under the umbrella name “infidelity”. Adultery refers to having sexual relationships with someone who is not their spouse. The term Extra Dyadic Sex (EDS) is often used in academic and research papers. In general, those who commit adultery have engaged in many other forms of infidelity as […]

POST 73: TO ALL OF YOU WHO….

I am thinking of all the people who did not have a great mom (mum) or dad, regardless of your age. I am thinking about you when you are biting your tongue and try so hard to be civil and respectful, without faking it too much. I am thinking about all of you who are […]

POST 72: MISATTRIBUTION OF EMOTION

From the Theory of Emotion to Misattribution of Emotion Basically there are two theories on emotion. The first can be traced back to Charles Darwin who believed that there are eight or nine basic emotions, which are inborn syndromes of feeling and behaviour. Theorists following in Darwin’s footsteps focus on the facial expression as well […]

POST 71: …COUPLE BOUNDARIES

The Process Toward Establishing Healthy Couple Boundaries Couple boundaries are personal and therefore couples need to discuss these and come to agreements that makes sense to them. Couple boundaries are dynamic, not “set in stone” and will need to be discussed on-need basis as situations change over time. There are many reasons why agreements, expectations […]

POST 70: HEALING RITUALS

The following post consists of a summary of an article written by Winek and Craven (2003). I have added personal comments. In previous posts I have listed the causes of infidelity and the different types of adulterous relationships. I also wrote about healing and triggers. The article by Winek and Craven does not include significant […]

POST 69: BOUNDARIES!

The importance of having Professional Boundaries at the Workplace Boundaries are there for your well-being and protection (Lancer, 2017). A boundary is “something that indicates bounds or limits; a limiting or bounding line” (Dictionary.com). A boundary is “a real or imagined line that marks the edge or limit of something” (dictionarycambridge.org). There are many different […]