POST 80: LET’S BE HONEST…

Since the news broke about the predatory behaviour of one of Hollywood’s most famous, the topic comes up in nearly every conversation I have, even when I desperately hope that this time it will not be mentioned. The overall sentiment is that people are pleased with the attention the story is getting because most want […]

POST 79: THE MARRIAGE

The Marriage   22 years of marriage, she said Two children a girl and a boy Sacrifice out of love for them For him no time to enjoy   Years of selfishness from him And so called innocent flirtation What was our marriage worth, she asks Destroyed by demons of temptation   Pretending to be […]

POST 78: CLOSURE

Closure   Obsessed with truth Trying to understand Nothing makes sense Ending in no-where land     Hunting a ghost Manipulating liar Deception and greed Misattributed desire     Accepting the facts The hurt will ease Starting again Finding peace     Throwing it out No longer there Finding self The final of the affair […]

POST 77: POWER

Power   Unconditional love I gave you In turn you betrayed For a cheap screw   Desperate I was Offering and pleasing Giving body and soul Sacrificing appeasing   Trusting and loving Beautifully educated Held hostage by you Frustrated castrated   Taking back my power No longer dependent Freed myself Feeling transcended     By: […]

POST 76: TRAUMA & POST ADULTERY STRESS DISORDER

POST INFIDELITY/POST ADULTERY STRESS DISORDER (PASD) Although not included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th edition (DSM-5), therapists have recognized that many people who have experienced the betrayal of a partner, suffer from similar symptoms as those diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), and equal to PTSD, they need a […]

POST 75: TORN

Torn   Hiding in public Isolation Crazy sleepless nights Damnation   Lowering self Losing sanity Memory with holes Anger leading to profanity   Crippling pain Broken and hurt Ongoing torture Triggered by dirt   Searching truth Terrors and dreams Meeting silence Sharing common themes   Wanting to be held By the one who betrayed Wishing […]

POST 74: ADULTERY NO REMORSE

Adultery, no remorse and their consequences Adultery falls under the umbrella name “infidelity”. Adultery refers to having sexual relationships with someone who is not their spouse. The term Extra Dyadic Sex (EDS) is often used in academic and research papers. In general, those who commit adultery have engaged in many other forms of infidelity as […]