I have struggled and still do at times about “justice”.
Many posts have been written about “homewreckers” and “gold diggers” and some people feel that the person who cheats and is married is the sole person who needs to take the blame and all responsibility.
All situations are different, but to me it is important that it is also acknowledged that there are people, who do everything to destroy a marriage by relentlessly pursuing a married person, by stalking their partner and by manipulating, lying and using all seduction tricks.
Yes, the married person who betrays their partner is the one who has done wrong and it takes years of hard work as a couple to make the marriage work. In many cases, despite the efforts, the marriage falls apart.
But it is hard to not seeing justice taking place….when knowing that the person who pursued a married man (or woman) moves on to another target.
Surviving infidelity through hard work is possible when both partners want this and it is a worthwhile journey with many downs…and a long road up…as if climbing a steep mountain….but during the process there is gain from the work-out!
Justice comes …in the form of having fun with your partner and your kids…something the OW/OM will never have…..